"I think that two people in a relationship which is near about a decade, breaking up is not that easy, not because of true love but they are so much used to each other", said N. That is when it hit me as to what happens to LOVE in a relationship. Isn't that the first thing which brings two people close, then how come gradually over the years it has no value in the relationship. Is it true for most of us that we stay in a relationship,because we are used to each other than being in love.
I think it is better to walk out of a relationship, rather than staying just because it is more comfortable. Relationships are meant to grow and nurture, only if we love each other and have compatibility then it is more fulfilling. We often tend to mistake that two people, who are in a long relationship are made for each other. But that is not the case, surprisingly not all such relationships can witness a marriage. On the other hand, a couple who might be seeing each other say about an year or so might end up getting married. The whole point is that Relationships are not meant to be easy, there are whole lot of things involved. If a person is not sure about the other person than breaking up seems an ideal solution, rather being in a relationship which hold no future.'Love' or 'Likeness' are either of the reason as why people fall for each other but that is not enough to sustain a relationship. Now having a good relationship is not about changing the other person in your life but it is about how you feel about yourself. So be yourself, because it is not worthwhile trying to be somebody else.
I myself find that relationships are very simple but then again they are complicated. Everyone of us have invested a lot of our time in bad relationships, but those were learning curves on our way to find the ideal one.We often start questioning everything about ourselves like.
"I am not good enough"
''There is something wrong with me''
'' I know, am not that goodlooking''
'' I will never find that special person''
Healthy relationship needs time and focus like any other thing in your life. Navigating your way between small fights to larger issues and understanding that the other person is just human will make a lot of difference. There is no such thing as soul mate or a perfect partner, like it or not differences in a relationship creeps up because of our exaggerated expectations. You never know that your dorky friend from High school could be the person you might be spending your life with. Its all about how your partner treats you. He/she might not be exceptionally good looking but will love for who you are.
Now this is some really heavy stuff. For now forget everything and start preparing to greet the new year in style.
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I myself find that relationships are very simple but then again they are complicated. Everyone of us have invested a lot of our time in bad relationships, but those were learning curves on our way to find the ideal one.We often start questioning everything about ourselves like.
"I am not good enough"
''There is something wrong with me''
'' I know, am not that goodlooking''
'' I will never find that special person''
Healthy relationship needs time and focus like any other thing in your life. Navigating your way between small fights to larger issues and understanding that the other person is just human will make a lot of difference. There is no such thing as soul mate or a perfect partner, like it or not differences in a relationship creeps up because of our exaggerated expectations. You never know that your dorky friend from High school could be the person you might be spending your life with. Its all about how your partner treats you. He/she might not be exceptionally good looking but will love for who you are.
Now this is some really heavy stuff. For now forget everything and start preparing to greet the new year in style.
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